How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

What's an uncomfortable truth you've learned to accept?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What is your daily motivation and does it work?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What should I be looking for when trying out running shoes? Local store lets me try the shoe and jog up and down the block, but they mostly feel the same to me. Is there some feeling or anything else specific I should be looking for?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do Brits realize that Andrew Tate is the one who will liberate their country from tyranny by becoming prime minister?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

My marriage is fixed. My future husband repeatedly calls me to meet me in private and pressure me to have a relationship. What should I do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.